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7 Steps to Prepare You for Your Next

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7 Steps to Prepare You for Your Next

When one season ends and you are looking ahead to the next season, how do you prepare? What happens in the in-between? I don’t know if we spend enough time in that in-between space. Sometimes we were so ready for the last thing to end that we don’t pause to consider the implications and lessons that accompany both seasons.

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It's Time for Me to Take That Leap

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It's Time for Me to Take That Leap

There's something interesting that happens with transition: you literally have to leap to the next opportunity holding on to nothing of the past or you will not cross over into the next thing. I believe that to transition successfully you have to be willing to lose all that you gained in a previous season to seize what is ahead of you in the next season.

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Writers Are Healers: When's the Last Time You Used Your Power?

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Writers Are Healers: When's the Last Time You Used Your Power?

Writers have a unique weapon at their disposal that can bring healing to the world. That weapon is the written word. Just like any weapon it can be wielded for good or evil. The right word at the right time can have a huge impact if only on one reader at first, transforming them into a force of change and compassion and producing a ripple effect that can ultimately impact entire cultures and societies.

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My Top 10 Most Encouraging Blog Posts to Help Writers Reach Their Goals

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My Top 10 Most Encouraging Blog Posts to Help Writers Reach Their Goals

One of my favorite things to do is encourage someone toward their dreams. In turn one of the most rewarding part of my job as an editor is to see that encouragement become a dream realized for the dreamer. Sometimes all you need is for someone to give your dreams real and grounded validation and approval. I believe that there is hardly anything impossible for someone who is believed in and believes in themselves.

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Celebrate the Nos in Your Life

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Celebrate the Nos in Your Life

Sometimes I wonder if our dejected reactions to the nos in our lives are too premature. Maybe if we hold on to hope just a little while longer that there's something better on the way, we might see that the no was a good thing.

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The Supernatural Power of the Pen

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The Supernatural Power of the Pen

When I write things down, they become part of my consciousness; and somehow my hope, actions, speech, and expectations align with what was written. How does it happen? I have no idea how this happens, but when I look back and see I "unconsciously" accomplished the goal, I am completely amazed.

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The Time Is Now to Take Your Publishing Dreams to the Next Level

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The Time Is Now to Take Your Publishing Dreams to the Next Level

In the past several years I've had the pleasure of attending a couple conferences more than once (others I've attended only once). What I like so much about going to the same conference year after year is that I get to build relationships and face-to-name recognition with some of the return conferees. I get to see their progress. I get to hear wonderful updates. I also get to hear the same stories I heard the year before...

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Do It Scared

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Do It Scared

Something I am learning: If you wait until you have no feelings of fear and everything is perfect before you do something your heart has been longing to do, you will never do it. Do not mistake faith for a feeling. Faith is about trusting in God's infinite ability to act on your behalf. His word over your life or the one thing you are aiming to do is sure. He does not fail.

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A Simply Beautiful Story of a Journey to Publication

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A Simply Beautiful Story of a Journey to Publication

Staying on the path to achieving your dreams is not easy. Quitting seems like a really good option on most days. Ignore those thoughts. Seriously. When you think of quitting, shun it like the dark evil it is. Recognize it. Call it out. Encourage yourself all over again with stories such as this from Christian fiction author Kariss Lynch. In this piece she shares her story of her journey to publication. I hope it inspires you to never, never, never give up on pursuing what you know you have been specially chosen for.

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Beyond a Love Affair: How I Went From Loving Books to Writing Them

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Beyond a Love Affair: How I Went From Loving Books to Writing Them

I ventured out and tried something different on my blog today and let you hear from one of my dearest friends Becky Van Volkinburg, who just became a published author. Becky and I have sang together, cried together, prayed to gather, dreamed together, vented about "stuff" together... I am so proud of her journey and I wanted to share it with you today.

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Prayers That Release Writer and Editor Creative Flow

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Prayers That Release Writer and Editor Creative Flow

My purpose for blogging is to share and learn ways to be successful in the publishing industry. In maintaining this goal, I like to share encouragement and tools that help me. These prayers came out of a day when I was facing an uphill climb of completing a massive edit in a short period of time and I thought, “I bet there are others out there who may be struggling with projects of their own. Maybe as I pray, I can share my prayers and maybe they will help them too.”

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10 Things You Can Learn from a Writer



Open up the heart of a writer, and you will discover some pretty amazing things. They are a rare breed. These are the kind of people who go toward the struggle instead of running away from it. Why? Because they see past it into their dreams. This one characteristic in itself is one to glean many life lessons from, but for the moment ('cause I live in those), I thought I would briefly list what I thought writers could teach us all.

1. Don't be so afraid to put yourself out there that you don't--if anything, do it scared.
2. Welcome constructive critique and make the changes.
3. Let yourself dream and your imagination soar.
4. Surround yourself with a supportive network of people or animals or both.
5. Get a mentor or coach.
6. Keep in touch with your deep emotions.
7. Take a break and recharge, when you've hit a wall.
8. Know your strengths and be ready to tell your story.
9. Read a lot of good books.
10. Never give up on your dreams.

What are some other things we can learn from writers?

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Do You Pray for Your Editor?


There is so much that goes into publishing a book, and the first phase involving editing and production carries some of the most challenging circumstances, obstacles, and distractions.

I’ve been editing a project when all of a sudden Microsoft Word shut down and I lost thirty pages of edits—never recovered. I had to redo all of it. I’ve been editing a project when my hard drive just up and died. I have been in the midst of an edit and cannot for the life of me figure out what the author is talking about, where they want to go with an idea or principle, or I’ve lost my train of thought on how to increase the intensity of a passionate appeal to the reader. If you quiz a few more editors, the stories of what happens behind the publisher's closed doors may actually scare you straight into the nearest prayer closet, sanctuary, or temple.

So, of course, I pray for myself that God will allow my mind to be sharp and enable me to imagine beyond the author’s words and into their heart. I also pray for the author as I am editing, because I know they are out there somewhere writing, speaking, traveling, and impacting people with hope, encouragement, and life-changing solutions. They are out there promoting their upcoming book. They are making connections and contacts. I know that they could benefit from divine help, so I pray for them.

There are things that work against our progress, but as a person who believes in the power of God, there will be none of that. The opposition will not win.

So I challenge the authors out there, who have faith, to pray for their editors. We are very much a part of your success and there are all kinds of things that try to get us off track from making your message everything it was meant to be.

Here’s how you can pray:

  • Pray that your editor is able to focus.
  • Pray that your editor will have positive interactions with their team members.
  • Pray that your editor will have peaceful and quality interactions with their family and friends.
  • Pray that your editor is inspired with the same passion you had as you wrote your piece.
  • Pray that your editor will have limited distractions—both technological and mental.
  • Pray that your editor’s financial needs are met.
  • Pray that your editor will have success in other editorial or acquisition endeavors.
  • Pray that your editor will have open doors and ears when they go to bat for you on key issues. They are your in-house advocates.

I believe every point listed above plays into how an editor is able to engage in an edit successfully.

What are some other ways to circulate positive synergy in the author-editor relationship?

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7 Ways to Win at Waiting

And so after waiting patiently, Abraham received what was promised.
—Hebrews 6:15

It is a great piece of skill to know how to guide your luck even while waiting for it.
Baltasar Gracian

Waiting is really hard. I won’t tell you how I know that. The thing about waiting is that you know there are things you can quickly do to end the torture: follow up, call one more time, change directions, make a quick decision on the next best thing that’s available right now… But are those the right things to do? Will they bring you the best results? Are they strategic? Or are they things you want to do because you are impatient and you just can’t take waiting?

Then, if you do what you think you could do, will it sabotage the best outcome you hoped to experience after all that waiting? For instance, if you go the easy route with what's presently available, will the one thing you were really hoping to work out suddenly work out but now it's too late because you already chose what was there? Who knows? But you have to always factor in the good, better, and best of a possible action when you’re in a holding pattern.

Here’s my take: if you have reservations about what will happen if you move, you should wait longer. There is something about life that allows the answers to your heart questions to come around to you naturally—and you know when it’s right, because you'll have peace.

In these situations, I personally continue to pray and ask that my ears and eyes be opened to the right moment to act in just the right way to bring about the best answer or solution. I ask God to quiet my spirit so that I can be more keenly aware of the movements and soft nudges toward the right way I should proceed. If I don’t get to a place of internal quiet, then my mind is racing with questions and possible solutions to what I am facing, rather than letting the right solution be made known to me. There is a reward of peace when you allow the process of waiting to have its full work in you. Not only do you get what was divinely yours, but you also get the satisfaction of seeing yourself mature through the process of life. (And in case you haven’t figured it out yet, life is hardly about how much you can get out of it. It seems to be more about who we become through the process, which then determines if we graduate to the next level of great opportunities.)

Waiting is not a fun game at all, but here are some ways to win while waiting:

  1. Find a place of internal quiet, where your thoughts are not racing with possibilities and solutions but it is open and ready to listen to divine direction.
  2. Pray for the right time and way to proceed to be revealed to you.
  3. Remember similar times in your life when you were faced with this type of waiting and how after waiting things worked out for the best. Focusing on a positive outcome is freeing and causes you to wait with expectation instead of nervous dread.
  4. Busy yourself with something unrelated to what you are waiting for. Continue to be productive in another areas of your life. It’s amazing how time flies when you’re busy doing something else and you’re mind is not on that ONE THING.
  5. Reach out and give encouragement to a friend or colleague who is going through a difficult time (oh and then take your own good advice).
  6. When you feel a release to act with regard to what you are waiting for, even if it is in a small way, do it.
  7. Rinse and repeat as many times as necessary until you see a break in the clouds. That break is guaranteed, because nothing ever stays the same. Seasons change, and even waiting comes to an end. Just be careful not to belabor waiting. Be very sensitive to when it’s time to act, make a move, or just move on.
So what are you waiting for today: a response from a job interview; acceptance from a literary agent or editor; an answer to a request or proposal, bid, or quote; a green light on a financial or business proposition?

The answer, the response, the verdict is there and it’s coming…

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What Happens to Writers After the Writers' Conference? 7 Things That Should NOT Happen

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What Happens to Writers After the Writers' Conference? 7 Things That Should NOT Happen

You finally meet with the editor or agent, and to your surprise, after thinking their favorite word is no, they say they like your concept and would love to see more of it. “Here’s my card,” they say. “Please email me a full proposal.” The words you had practiced to combat any objections are caught in your throat and all you can say is, “Oh! Oh, that’s great. OK! Yes? Really? OK! Thank you!”

Yes, they want you to send them your manuscript (or proposal). But you know what some writers do? OK, wait. This requires a list.

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8 Rituals to Get You Focused*


“My only ritual is to just sit down and write, write every day.”
—Augusten Burroughs

I chose eight, ’cause I like eight. Eight is the number of new beginnings. Retaining focus on a project, task, or goal for me requires that I regularly reinvent a new way to see my actions toward or completing any of the things I am responsible for. I stay focused when I am able to see into the various angles and rhythms of what is set before me to accomplish. That keeps it fresh and regenerative for me, so that I don’t lose interest and wander from it completely. I do believe that if you have carefully considered how something plays into your life plan and purpose and you set out to begin it, you should finish it. It sets you up to trust yourself. Another thing that Americans regularly avoid that directly affects focus and concentration is good sleep. Don’t neglect the basics and think you will have peak performance. When you are rested, you are better able to handle temptations and stressors that take you off task and out of your game.


As you consider the things I’ve compiled below, think on the why of your task. Purpose breeds focused, intentional, and deliberate action over a long period of time or until the purpose is achieved. Then, consider getting a good night's sleep before you enact your plans to take over the world.


A Few Focus Rituals 
Please note that this isn’t meant to be a comprehensive list, nor am I suggesting you do all of these. It’s a list of ideas—you should try ones that seem best suited for your situation, and test them out to see what works best. Oh, and the thing about rituals, they aren’t easily dismissed. When you set yourself in a pattern that has significance and produces positive results, you are more likely to include it in your regular daily practices. Rituals have a way of empowering you even when you are feeling less than inspired.

1. Morning quiet. You start your day in quiet, before the busyness of the world intrudes on your peace of mind. If you live with others, you might want to wake before they do. The key to enjoying this focus ritual is not going online. You can turn on the computer if you just want to write. You can have coffee or tea and read. You can meditate, do yoga or some other workout, go for a run, take a walk, or sit quietly and do nothing. I like to listen to the Daily Audio Bible Podcast with its smooth, ambient music playing under the inspirational reading of God’s Word. The key is to take advantage of this peaceful time to rest your mind and focus, however you like.

2. Start of day. Begin your workday by not checking email or any other distractions, but start a simple to-do list on paper or with a text file. On this blank to-do list, just list your three most important tasks. Or if you like, just list the one thing you really want to accomplish today. This helps you to focus on what’s important. Even better: continue this focus ritual by starting immediately on the top task on this short list of most important tasks. Set your focus singly on this important task as long as you can—ideally until it’s done. Now you’ve started your day with focus, and you’ve already accomplished something great.

3. Refocus ritual. While the start-of-day ritual is great, there are lots of things that get in the way to distract you, to mess up your focus. So every hour or two, do a refocus ritual. This only takes a minute or two. You might start it by closing down your browser and maybe other open applications, then you may take a walk for a couple of minutes to clear your head and get your blood circulating. Then return to your list of most important tasks and figure out what you need to accomplish next. Before you check email again or go back online, work on that important task for as long as you can. Repeat this refocus ritual throughout the day to bring yourself back. It’s also nice to take some nice deep breaths to focus yourself back on the present.

4. Alternate focus and rest. This is almost like intervals in exercise—alternating between periods of hard exercise and rest works well because it allows you to do some pretty intense exercise, as long as you allow yourself some rest. Focus works much the same way: if you give yourself built-in periods of rest, you can get some great periods of focus. There are many variations on this, but some ideas might include: ten minutes of focus followed by two minutes of rest; twenty-five minutes of focus then five minutes of rest; forty-five minutes of focus then fifteen minutes of rest. You get the idea. You’ll need to experiment to find the length and mixture that works best for you. Some prefer short bursts and others like longer periods of undisturbed creativity.

5. Alternate two focuses. Instead of alternating between focus and rest, you could alternate between two different focuses. For example, you could work on two different projects at once, or study for two different classes at once. I’d suggest not switching too rapidly, because there’s a short period of adjustment each time you switch. But you could work for ten minutes on one thing and then ten on another, or stay focused on one as long as you are interested in it then switch when your interest lags. The great thing about this method is that switching to a new project can help give your brain a rest from the other project, and it can keep you creating for much longer before getting distracted.

6. Communicate first then blocks of focus. Set a timer and give yourself forty-five minutes to do email, Twitter, Facebook, IM, and any reading you would normally do. Then use an Internet blocker to block these distractions for a couple of hours (up to three to four hours if you like) while you focus on creating. Then another forty-five minutes of communicating and reading, followed by another block of distraction-free focus.

7. End of day. At the end of each day, you might review what you did, think of what can be improved, remind yourself to disconnect for the rest of the evening, and think about what you’ll focus on tomorrow. It’s a good time to reflect on your day and your life in general.

8. Weekly focus rituals. While it’s not necessary to do a complete weekly review of everything you’re doing, have done, and plan to do, it can be useful to schedule ten minutes every week to quickly bring your work and life back into the right focus. I suggest you review your projects to make sure you’re not letting them get out of hand; simplify your to-do list as much as possible; review the focus rituals you’ve been doing to see what’s working and what isn’t; and basically reflect on what you’re doing with work and life and whether anything needs to change.

The rituals above are just ideas—you should find the ritual that works best for you. There are an almost infinite number of possibilities.
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*This blog post was adapted from Leo Babauta, Focus: A Simplicity Manifesto in the Age of Distraction (n.p.: n.d.), public domain (http://focusmanifesto.com/) (accessed January 19, 2011).

What helps you stay focused and creative?

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Serious Editorial Advice: Be You!


I just wanted to send out a little encouragement today. I often get queries or requests from writers wanting to be published, and sometimes they don’t fit in with what we publish at the company I work for. And this post is not just for them, but it is for you as well. Regardless of being turned down by one or another publisher, agent, or editor, there is still room for you. Your story is your story. It is unique and was meant to touch someone—even if that someone is you. Don’t give up on your dreams of being published. Don’t be put off by rejections. Fine-tune your skills, hone your craft, learn the industry (should I repeat that?), and let your character speak louder than your words. This will quell many arguments and make it harder for the decision-makers to say no. But let me just say: don’t go in half-way. Always present your best self. Go big or go home.

There is one quote that encourages me all the time. With me being sort of an introvert, I can sometimes feel down about being “too different” from those around me. But these words always make me feel like I can still shine, that I am supposed to shine, and that I better shine in my own way or someone else is going to miss out!


Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We are born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us, it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
—Marianne Williamson

Another one that makes me sit up a little taller in the midst of my uniqueness is this one from the Bible.

You are here to be salt-seasoning that brings out the God-flavors of this earth….You are here to be light, bringing out the God-colors in the world….Keep open house; be generous with your [life].
—Matthew 5, The Message

We are a reflection of the beautiful diversity of creation. So what there are genres and rules and agents and editors and publishing houses with submission guidelines. You can still shine. You are supposed to be different. Your writing is not supposed to be like this one or that one. You have the power to take your uniqueness and master it so that it is impressed on the culture in such a way that makes an impact. Write that fiction in first person, present tense, but go all the way and make it exceptional.

Do you get it? If you don’t fit in “here,” find where you do fit. Get in where you fit in—you’ve heard that before, yes? Don’t squish yourself into a box that wasn’t made for you.

Oh, wow, this is all so very liberating, right? But it’s just the beginning. You have to kill it! You have to work it! There's no acting "brand new" when the curtain goes up. Once you hit the stage, you are on!

So here's the real question: Do you have the guts to go all the way in and really be you?

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